There is only one rule for 2017 and that’s we do NOT look back at 2016. Ok, ok… maybe I’m being a little dramatic. WHO AM I KIDDING?! 2016 was a big year for me, and although I learned a lot about myself I don’t wish to look back at the year. Struggling with your happiness is not easy because you feel like you are never at peace, but the first step was realizing how unhappy I was and putting one foot in front of the other in a direction that would make me happy. No one wants to look back at a time in their life when they were unhappy, right? So goodbye 2016 and HELLO 2017!
So here I am, one week into the New Year and I am asking myself what all do I want to accomplish in 2017? Well, for starters, I am not going for the cliché caption many people are guilty of using “A new year, a new me”. I’m choosing to look at the new year with a different perspective because I have come to really love who I am so I don’t want to be a new version of myself, just a better version of myself. I know it might all sound the same, but to me it means something different and that’s all that matters.
So what are my goals? Well I have a few, nothing crazy or too specific. I want to leave them a little vague so that I can decide if I feel accomplished at the end of the year. Here we go:
Health & Body
For starters I want to feel comfortable in my own body. This doesn’t mean I want to hit a special number or even that I want to get into a specific work out routine to gain a noticeable amount of muscle. I just want to feel healthy, and comfortable in the clothes I wear while making a conscious effort to exercise and eat right.
Friends & Family
In the upcoming year I want to continue to strengthen my relationship with my family. I want to visit my sister and nieces and spend quality time with them. I want to continue to sustain my strong friendships with my life long friends, but I also want to branch out and continue to make new friends. I want to constantly support and love the people who matter most to me.
I want to take advantage of where I live and take the time to explore areas around me that I haven’t seen before. I want to get outdoors more and spend time in nature. It might not be California, but Kentucky is beautiful in its own way and there is plenty to see in the states around me. Lastly I want to travel to a destination I’ve always wanted to travel to but didn’t have the time or the money.
Mind & Spirit
I have become a much more open-minded person than I have ever been in the past, and I want to continue to have an open mind and try to understand other points of view. I want to continue to embrace change because I still struggle with this, believe it or not. Most importantly I want to relax a little and not be so damn hard on myself. I am not perfect, and that is ok!
I am sure that there is so many other blogs posted about new years resolutions, so thank you for reading mine and I hope you continue to follow along in 2017!